STOP LEAVING YOUR LOVE LIFE TO CHANCE

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A COMMUNITY FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING THEIR PERSON.

Modern Dating Project (MDP) is a community for people who are done leaving their dating life to chance.

Whether your dating life has gone quiet and you just want to get back out there or you’re getting plenty of dates, but not with the right people, we’re here to help.

Our ethos is simple: become the best version of yourself to attract the partner you’ve been looking for. And let’s have a damn good time doing it.

MY COACHING services

1 on 1 coaching is where the real work happens.

We start with an honest look at where you are (what’s working, what isn’t and what’s been getting in the way). From there we build a plan that’s specific to you.

Depending on what you need we’ll focus on your:

  • Dating Strategy (where and how to meet people)

  • Communication (how you show up in conversations)

  • Look (personal style and first impressions)

  • Confidence (habits and the mindset that makes it all stick)

This and much more are the focus of our work together, but first and foremost, I’m your wingman. Sessions are virtual or in-person in NYC and built around accountability and support.

  • Personalized coaching tailored to grow confidence in dating and life (in-person or virtual)

  • Outings designed to sharpen your social skills with immediate feedback and guidance

  • A profile overhaul that makes you stand out plus the tools to turn swipes into actual connections

  • Assess your current wardrobe, define the style you’re seeking and shop to complete your new look

  • Together with my interior designer, we’ll help reimagine your apartment so it feels fresh, stylish and uniquely you

  • My personal trainer will help you get in shape and build lasting fitness habits

Our Services
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COMMUNITY EVENTS & WORKSHOPS

Dating is easier when you’re not doing it alone.

Modern Dating Project brings together driven, self-aware singles for events and workshops that are a balance of fun and challenging. You’re gonna participate, you’re gonna learn and you’re gonna meet some cool people.

What we host:

  • Singles events - from chill and lowkey to curated and still lowkey

  • Workshops - from flirting and conversation skills to confidence and personal style

  • Social events - from book clubs to Halloween parties

Whether you come once or become a regular, you’ll leave with new skills, new perspectives and probably a few people worth keeping in touch with.

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Hi, I’m Brandon.

After years of building a career in finance and product management, an unexpected layoff gave me the chance to focus on what truly mattered. I had a choice: return to the familiar or take a leap into something new and deeply fulfilling.

I chose to leap, and it changed everything.

As someone who used to hesitate to ask for the number, make the move or talk to the beautiful girl, I know firsthand what it’s like to struggle with dating. Through reconnecting with myself, I transformed my approach to relationships and built the confidence to connect in meaningful ways.

Now, as a certified dating coach, I’m passionate about helping other driven professionals break through their own barriers and find the fulfillment they deserve in their love lives and beyond.

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  • Working with Brandon has been the best investment I’ve made in over 10 years.

    -Jacob M.

  • “Brandon has been an incredible coach. I had recently exited a long-term relationship and found the dating scene overwhelming. He tailored his approach to my situation: how to approach women respectfully, getting the first date, etiquette on the date, and how to be confident and land that coveted second date. Discussing dating shortcomings can be awkward, but Brandon’s open-mindedness made me comfortable having intimate conversations. I appreciate how he takes a modern approach to dating: he champions communication and honesty, which are important virtues for dating. I also found the areas we worked on together helped not only my dating life, but enriched my life as a whole. I’d recommend Brandon to anyone who wants to level up their dating life.”

    -Gavin J

  • Brandon has been great to work with on improving my appearance and style! He listened to all of my concerns and goals up-front and anything I was looking to avoid that I'd tried before. Clothing shopping with him truly felt like a collaboration between friends. He introduced me to a number of cool clothing stores that weren't even on my radar and often knew the people working there, and even had his own discount at some of the places! He also made me feel comfortable through getting a new haircut and offered great feedback on picking out glasses that suited my rather particular preferences. He even threw in a few dating tips as a bonus! Now that all is said and done, I feel great about how I'll look for any future dates I have!

    Almost forgot, as a bonus, Brandon even came to my photoshoot to offer up "on the fly" outfits using all of my new clothes we got together, and some fun poses too, this guy is great!

    -Chris S.

  • Thank you so much for hosting such a great event! Most events leave me drained, but last night's hang honestly left me feeling energized and connected, and that was very much due to the great, warm energy you brought to the evening :) I so appreciate it!

    -K.D.

  • It was just a ton of fun, great people, great brands and I got a ton out of [the shopping event]!

    -Charles L.

  • I just want to say thank you again for being such a wonderful host. As a woman, I’m always trying to discern whether a space is safe and intentional and something that came out through our convo was that you care about people first, and also about bringing the right ones together. I think that’s evident in the space you created.

    I connected with someone at the event and I’m excited to explore that, and would love to go to another one in the future.

    -G.S.